Body Mechanic Massage by Gentleman's Oasis
Essential Information & Disclaimer:
Thank you for taking the time to visit my site. I appreciate your interest and encourage you to explore the content here before reaching out. Most common questions are already answered throughout the site, so please review the information carefully. Doing so will save us both time and ensure you have a clear understanding of what I provide.
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New Client Details — Read Carefully:
I work with men 18 and older who have a fit, muscular, or well balanced build. My massage table has a set weight limit, so for safety and to protect my equipment, I can’t take clients who are significantly overweight. I appreciate your understanding and look forward to helping you relax and recharge.
People often ask why I offer complimentary sessions. The answer is simple: passion and purpose. Massage isn’t my main career, but it’s something I’ve done for years and truly value. I respect the male body and the dedication it takes to build and maintain it. I focus on working with men who are fit, proportionate, or carry a muscular or bodybuilder frame, physiques that show discipline, consistency, and confidence.
If you’re new to M2M touch, take your time. A lot of guys jump in without thinking it through. I get the curiosity and excitement, but I don’t schedule anyone until we’ve had a few real conversations. Too many reach out on impulse and vanish when it fades. That’s not how I work. I don’t accept same day appointments either. You can read more about that on my website.
When you’re ready to book, be clear and follow through. Don’t lock in a time unless you mean it. I understand there can be nerves, especially when it’s something new or with another man, but approach it with respect. My time matters, and so does yours. If you’re serious, I’ll meet you there. If not, no problem, just be upfront.
All new clients must complete a new client intake form. Check the “Contact Me” section for details.
Driven and Focused (about me)
I’m a discreet, easy-going, down-to-earth 52-year-old divorced bisexual man of mixed Caucasian and Latin heritage. I maintain a sharp and well-groomed appearance, sporting a buzzed haircut, mustache, and goatee. Standing at 5’8” and weighing 175lbs, I embrace my solid dad bod (LOL). As a lifelong Sac Kings fan (Light the Beam! 🟣), I have a deep admiration for the strength, complexity, and energy of the human body.
By day, I’m a Project Manager in the corporate world. Outside of work, I channel my passions into two distinct yet complementary pursuits: photography and massage therapy. I specialize in photographing male fitness models and bodybuilders, celebrating the artistry of the human form. In massage therapy, I offer a unique blend of relaxation and connection, creating an experience that leaves a lasting impression.
Massage has been a personal passion for years, naturally evolving into a calling. I believe in the transformative power of human touch—its ability to rejuvenate the body, sharpen the mind, and uplift the spirit. Since 2000, I’ve been dedicated to providing high-quality massage therapy, thoughtfully tailored to meet each individual’s needs. My focus is always on your comfort, privacy, and overall relaxation.
Sessions are held in a private, discreet space within my Northern California home, designed to foster a warm and welcoming atmosphere for total relaxation. This isn’t a conventional studio experience—it’s about meaningful connections with like-minded, laid-back men who appreciate the benefits of complimentary massage. All sessions are exclusively for consenting adults aged 18 and older, with discretion being a top priority.
Muscular / Bodybuilder Physique
If you’re serious about building and maintaining a muscular or bodybuilder physique, regular massage should be a key part of your recovery and performance routine. Pushing your body to its limits in the gym breaks down muscle fibers—and proper recovery is where real growth happens. Massage therapy helps accelerate that recovery process by increasing blood flow, reducing inflammation, flushing out toxins, and relieving deep muscle tension.
It also improves flexibility, helps prevent injury, and keeps your muscles balanced and aligned, so you can keep training hard without setbacks. Whether you're prepping for a competition, recovering from an intense workout, or just maintaining your size and strength, consistent massage therapy helps your body heal faster, perform better, and stay in top condition.
Relax, Rejuvenate, Discover, Unrivaled – Massage Therapy Tailored for The Modern Man
Thank you for considering my massage services. Before booking an appointment, please take a moment to review the information provided to ensure your experience is smooth, informed, and enjoyable.
Communication is very important to me. I respond to emails and texts promptly and expect the same courtesy in return. Delayed or ignored responses are not something I appreciate. I value meaningful conversations and enjoy getting to know my clients, so open and timely communication is essential.
Feeling stressed? Fatigued? Craving some TLC or the healing power of human touch? I offer a variety of massage services tailored to your specific needs, including Swedish, deep tissue, sports massage, sensual massage, and manscaping. Together, we’ll design a personalized treatment plan to help you achieve your goals.
Massage therapy works by activating key receptors in the central nervous system, relieving tension, promoting relaxation, and releasing endorphins to reduce pain and improve muscle flexibility. Incorporating a sensual massage as part of your session adds an extra layer of relaxation, leaving you refreshed, renewed, and completely at ease.
Experience expert care and attention from a skilled male therapist committed to your comfort and well-being.
Mission Statement
At Body Mechanic Massage by Gentleman's Oasis, my mission is to help men operate at their best physically, mentally, and emotionally. Every session is designed to deliver real results. I use skilled, focused massage to build strength, release stress, and restore balance so you can move through life with power and clarity.
This is a space built for men who value strength, confidence, and authenticity. Whether you’re experienced or new to M2M touch, you’ll find a comfortable, private setting where privacy, discretion, and respect come first. My in-home studio offers a discreet environment designed for total confidentiality, a place to reset, recharge, and get back to feeling like yourself again.
Relax, Rejuvenate, Discover, Unrivaled – Massage Therapy Tailored for The Modern Man
Essential Details - Kindly Review
Initial Communication and Appointment Policy
All first communications with potential clients will be handled through email or text before scheduling any appointments. This approach keeps things clear, professional, and secure while laying the groundwork for a solid client-practitioner relationship.
In your initial message, please include a short introduction and any relevant background or specific services you’re looking for. This helps ensure we’re on the same page from the start and allows me to tailor the experience to your needs. A brief consultation may be arranged to clarify expectations and create a personalized service plan.
All sessions take place in a private home setting designed to provide comfort, discretion, and a calm environment.
Appointment Scheduling
Evening sessions begin at 8:00 PM (see the FAQs for available days). This schedule works best for clients with daytime responsibilities and helps create a relaxed, unhurried experience.
For safety and professionalism, I do not offer same-day appointments to new clients. This allows enough time for communication and consultation before meeting.
By scheduling or reaching out to set up an appointment, clients confirm that they understand and agree to these terms. I reserve the right to adjust policies as needed to maintain high standards of professionalism, safety, and service quality.
Note: I don’t take same-day massage appointments. I’ve mentioned this in several places on my site, but to keep it short: past experiences led me to change how I book new clients. I need to get to know you a bit first. If you’re just looking for a last-minute session, I’m probably not the right therapist for you.
Gratuity Policy (Optional)
All massage services are offered on a complimentary basis—there are no fees, charges, or required payments. Gratuities are appreciated but completely voluntary and never expected. If you choose to offer one, you can do so by cash, credit (Visa, MasterCard, American Express, Discover), or debit cards with Visa or MasterCard logos.
Important Notice: As required by California law, gratuities are strictly voluntary gestures of appreciation. They are not considered payment or compensation for the service provided.
FAQs
You’ll find a detailed list of frequently asked questions at the bottom of the website. I encourage you to look through them for clear answers and useful information about my services.
Important Appointment Details
My website includes a lot of information, and I know it can feel like a lot to take in at first. If you’re hoping to book a same day or next day appointment, I may not be the right fit. I take time to build a connection and understand your needs, which is why I ask all new clients to complete a New Client Intake Form before scheduling.
The intake form is an important part of the process. You’ll find it, along with answers to common questions, in the New Client Intake Form section at the bottom of this site. If this process feels like more than you’d like, I completely understand and encourage you to connect with another therapist who may be a better match.
As a reminder, I do not book same day appointments for new clients. I like to get to know new clients before inviting them into my home. Massage sessions are scheduled after 8pm, and you can find more details in the FAQ section below.
Gentleman's Oasis Massage
Swedish Massage
Sports Massage / Infrared Cupping (red light) Therapy
Deep Tissue Massage
Swedish massage stands out as a widely practiced and highly sought-after form of massage therapy, renowned for its proficiency in inducing relaxation, alleviating stress, and mitigating pain. This popular massage technique employs a repertoire of therapeutic maneuvers, including gentle rubbing, kneading, soothing stroking, and rhythmic tapping, all meticulously designed to target and address various muscle groups. This therapeutic modality isn't merely about physical manipulation; it transcends into a holistic experience, harmonizing both the body and mind. The rhythmic and flowing movements of Swedish massage aim to release not only muscle tension but also to promote an overall sense of tranquility and well-being. Through the skillful application of pressure and strategic strokes, this massage technique encourages improved blood circulation, facilitating the body's natural ability to heal. Swedish massage, with its diverse range of techniques, caters to individual needs and preferences. From long, sweeping strokes that create a soothing sensation to focused kneading that targets specific muscle knots, each element contributes to the overall therapeutic effect.
Deep Tissue Massage
Sports Massage / Infrared Cupping (red light) Therapy
Deep Tissue Massage
Deep tissue massage aims to address intense muscular tension and discomfort within the muscles and connective tissues. Through the application of deliberate, unhurried strokes and substantial finger pressure, this therapeutic technique is specifically crafted to target and alleviate profound pain and stiffness in the affected areas. By employing deliberate and intense movements, the massage seeks to release tension deeply embedded in the muscle fibers and connective tissues, promoting a sense of relief and improved flexibility. This methodical approach is designed not only to address surface-level tension but also to delve into the deeper layers of musculature, providing a comprehensive solution for those seeking relief from persistent muscular discomfort. The deliberate pace and focused pressure work in tandem to unravel knots, release built-up tension, and enhance overall well-being by promoting increased blood circulation and restoring optimal muscle function.
Sports Massage / Infrared Cupping (red light) Therapy
Sports Massage / Infrared Cupping (red light) Therapy
Sports Massage / Infrared Cupping (red light) Therapy
Sports massage caters to the needs of athletes seeking enhanced performance or effective recovery from injuries. My approach blends the therapeutic benefits of deep tissue massage with targeted stretching techniques, ensuring a comprehensive strategy to propel you toward your athletic aspirations. Whether you aim to optimize your performance or bounce back from an injury, my specialized sports massage is tailored to support your journey and promote your overall well-being.
Infrared Cupping (red light) Therapy:
The suction helps blood flow better and loosens tight muscles. The red or infrared light goes into the skin to help cells heal and reduce swelling.
Benefits:
Infrared cupping can help with:
- Muscle pain or stiffness
- Better blood circulation
- Less swelling or soreness
- Relaxation and stress relief
- Healthier-looking skin
What happens in a session:
Cups are placed on areas like your back, shoulders, or legs. You’ll feel a warm pulling sensation. The marks left behind are normal and fade in a few days.
Sensual Massage
New Client Intake Questionnaire Info
Sports Massage / Infrared Cupping (red light) Therapy
A sensual massage crafted for men is more than just relaxation. It’s an art of touch guided by skill, intuition, and an understanding of the male body’s rhythm. Each stroke is slow and deliberate, building connection and trust while easing you into a deep state of calm. The hands don’t rush; they explore with purpose, working tension from the muscles and awakening sensitivity that runs beneath the surface.
This experience quiets the noise of daily life and brings you back to yourself—grounded, centered, and fully present in your body. It’s a moment to let go, to feel every breath and every sensation as energy flows freely again. The result is more than release. It’s renewal. Whether you come seeking peace, pleasure, or restoration, this touch leaves you balanced, invigorated, and deeply satisfied
The atmosphere is warm, quiet, and private, allowing you to unwind fully and let go of daily stress. This massage is ideal for men who want to explore a more mindful, intimate form of relaxation that nurtures both body and spirit.
Manscaping Services
New Client Intake Questionnaire Info
New Client Intake Questionnaire Info
As an experienced massage therapist with a dedication to professionalism, I proudly offer specialized manscaping services crafted exclusively for men who value precision, refinement, and confidence. Manscaping is more than just grooming—it’s about presenting your best self, enhancing your comfort, and embracing a polished, masculine aesthetic.
My services are tailored to address your individual needs, covering detailed trimming, shaving, or hair removal for areas such as the chest, back, buttocks, and groin. Every session is designed to ensure you feel confident, clean, and well-maintained. Whether you’re looking to stay sharp for athletic performance, elevate your personal grooming routine, or simply feel more at ease in your skin, my approach is grounded in your goals and preferences.
I take hygiene and precision seriously, utilizing state-of-the-art, fully sanitized trimmers and high-quality disposable razors to provide smooth, consistent results you can rely on. My techniques avoid the discomfort and harshness of traditional waxing, focusing instead on a gentle and effective process that prioritizes your comfort and satisfaction. Every step of the service is approached with care, professionalism, and respect, ensuring your experience is both relaxing and confidence-boosting.
For your peace of mind, please note that this premium service is available exclusively to returning clients. This policy allows me to establish a foundation of trust and familiarity, ensuring each session aligns with your unique needs and expectations.
When you invest in manscaping with me, you’re choosing a service that values precision, professionalism, and the pursuit of a confident, well-groomed appearance.
New Client Intake Questionnaire Info
New Client Intake Questionnaire Info
New Client Intake Questionnaire Info
Getting Started: When you’re ready, send me an email using the address listed under “Contact Me” and ask for the New Client intake form. Please include a brief introduction. After completing the form, you’ll be asked to provide physique photos from neck to feet. Your face is not required. Instructions for submitting images are included with the form.
Complimentary Services: Massage sessions are complimentary and offered at my discretion. Submitting the intake form does not guarantee a session.
Right to Refuse Service: I may decline service or choose not to respond to inquiries at any time, based on the information provided or other considerations.
Why the Intake Form Matters: Welcoming someone into my home requires trust and respect. The intake form helps me understand who you are and ensures the experience is safe and comfortable. The questions are simple—no more than what typically comes up in casual conversation. Completing the form is optional. If you’d prefer not to, that’s perfectly fine. You are free to seek out other therapists.
Privacy and Confidentiality: I personally review all forms and keep them confidential. Sessions take place in a private home setting for discretion. I never request overly personal information such as your last name or home address. If this process feels uncomfortable, you’re welcome to look elsewhere.
Final Note: Completing the form does not guarantee a session. If at any point the process feels too personal, you can walk away with no pressure. All I ask is mutual respect.
FAQs
FAQs (con't)
(Q) I'm hesitant providing my cell number to communicate.
(A) After a few negative experiences in the past, I’ve learned that it’s important for me to know a bit about the person I’m inviting into my home for a massage. I’m sure you can understand—it’s a personal space, and I want both of us to feel comfortable.
I prefer to communicate by text and appreciate consistent communication, not just a quick exchange. You can’t really get to know someone in a day or two. Sometimes people are very enthusiastic at first, but once that initial excitement fades, they disappear. If that’s likely to happen, it’s better not to move forward.
I talk a lot about communication and trust because I believe both are essential for building a solid, respectful connection.
(Q) Do you specialize in massaging a particular body type?
(A) I prefer working with men who are height/weight proportionate, or very fit, or muscular, or a bodybuilder’s physique. It’s important to note that massage tables have weight limits, and excessive weight could compromise the table’s integrity. As a result, I am unable to accommodate individuals who are significantly overweight or obese.
(Q) Are the massages genuinely free of charge?
(A) Massages are entirely complimentary with no hidden agenda. With over two decades of experience as a massage therapist, I genuinely enjoy the art of human touch and the connection to the male physique. This is a passion and a hobby for me, not a means of income.
(Q) Do you offer massages at a studio, or are they performed in a home?
(A) Massages are performed in the comfort of my home, offering a private and discreet experience. I have a dedicated room specifically designed for massage sessions. Before scheduling with new clients, I like to have a brief conversation to ensure we're a good fit and to prioritize safety for both of us.
(Q) Is it necessary for me to fill out the new client intake form?
(A) Yes, all new clients need to complete the new client intake form. You’ll also need to send a few photos of your physique for review. All the details are included in the intake form. To request it by email, go to the “Contact Me” section for instructions.
(Q) I'm curious, what do you look like as the person who will be giving me the massage?
(A) I’m a discreet, laid-back, and grounded 52-year-old divorced bisexual man of mixed Caucasian and Latin heritage. Think "guy-next-door" vibe with a clean-cut style—buzzed haircut, mustache, and goatee. I’m 5’8”, 175lbs, and owning my "dad bod."
(Q) As the massage therapist, would it be possible to obtain photos of you?
(A) I don’t share photos of myself under any circumstances. My work is focused solely on providing massage services, and I ask that all inquiries respect that boundary. I’m not here to entertain photo requests or unrelated messages. In the past, my images were misused after I declined to take on a new client, so I take this matter seriously.
(Q) Would it be helpful if I emailed you photos of my current physique?
(A) It would be greatly appreciated if you could email images showcasing your current physique. Including your face in the images is optional. Feel free to send the photos after completing the new client intake form.
(Q) I'm new to M2M and require complete discretion—what are your thoughts on this?
(A) I’m very selective about who I massage and allow into my home—trust is a top priority. Because of this, I keep a small, exclusive client base. Most of my clients are married or on the down-low, and repeat clients. This speaks to the trust they place in me, the comfort they feel, and the enjoyable experience. I also provide complete discretion and privacy. Rest assured, what happens here stays here.
(Q) What should I wear (or not wear) during a massage?
(A) For a massage, I ask clients to undress to their briefs. If preferred, clients may choose to be nude during the session. To ensure comfort and warmth, I always use proper draping throughout the massage.
(Q) What should I do if I become erect during a massage and feel embarrassed?
(A) If you happen to become erect during the massage, there’s absolutely no reason to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. It’s a natural and involuntary response that can occur when your body relaxes deeply and reacts to the soothing power of human touch. Rest assured, this is completely normal and nothing to be concerned about. My focus is on ensuring you have a relaxing, enjoyable, and comfortable experience.
(Q) As a new client, I’m looking to book a massage today. Is there any availability?
(A) For security reasons, I don’t allow same-day appointments for new clients. I prefer to take some time to communicate beforehand, get to know each other, and ensure we’re a good fit to work together.
(Q) I completed the new client intake form as requested and sent you an email, but I haven't received a response yet.
(A) Please take a moment to check your spam or junk folder, as there are times when my email may inadvertently be filtered into those folders. This can happen for various reasons beyond my control, and I wouldn’t want you to miss any important information or updates.
(Q) I have a hairy body and experienced discomfort during a previous massage. How can I address this issue for a more comfortable experience?
(A) If you've got a hairy physique, you might feel a bit of discomfort because I use massage lotion. If that happens, just let me know, and I can adjust the pressure to make things more comfortable. I use Biotone Massage Lotion, which is a high-quality, hypoallergenic product. I don’t use massage oils since they can damage the table and may cause skin irritation. I also have fragrance-free options available—just let me know ahead of time if that’s what you prefer.
FAQs (con't)
FAQs (con't)
(Q) I’m visiting Sacramento, CA for the day. Am I able to schedule an appointment?
(A) I’m sorry, but I’m not able to take same-day appointments from new clients. I like to get to know each new client beforehand due to past experiences. All new clients are also required to complete an intake form before booking a massage.
(Q) I visit Sacramento, CA often and would enjoy getting a complimentary massage. How can we do this?
(A) Thank you for your interest. I’m sorry, but I don’t take same day appointments from new clients. I like to get to know each new client beforehand due to past experiences. Since you visit Sacramento regularly, we can start the process now so that next time you’re in town, if I’m available, we can book your massage appointment. All new clients are also required to complete an intake form before scheduling a session.
(Q) As a new client, how can I help ensure you feel comfortable and eager to collaborate with me for a massage session?
(A) There's a saying: first impressions last a lifetime. For me, the ideal client is someone who communicates openly, shares their needs or desires clearly, and approaches with respect—not arrogance, rudeness, or unnecessary demands. I value honesty and trust, and I’m drawn to individuals who fit the physique criteria outlined on my website. Above all, I appreciate open-mindedness.
(Q) I really enjoyed the massage and would like to offer a gratuity to show my appreciation for your time and effort. Do you accept gratuities?
(A) Massage services are provided strictly on a complimentary and non-commercial basis, with no fees, charges, or financial obligations required for the performance of such services. Gratuities, if offered, are entirely voluntary, unsolicited, and not obligatory in any manner. Should a client elect to provide a gratuity, it may be rendered in various legally acceptable forms, including but not limited to cash, credit or debit cards, or through the Square payment service. Notice: Any gratuities extended are deemed unilateral, voluntary expressions of appreciation and, pursuant to applicable California statutes and regulations, shall not be construed, interpreted, or implied as payment, consideration, or compensation for any services rendered.
(Q) I've reviewed the new client intake form but am not comfortable providing certain information. Can I still proceed with scheduling a massage?
(A) I appreciate you taking the time to complete the new client intake form. Providing all the required information is necessary for me to proceed with scheduling your massage. Please note that incomplete forms will result in an automatic decline of services. The requested information is essential for booking, maintaining contact, and ensuring safety. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.
(Q) What are your available days and times for a massage?
(A) Availability Schedule:
- Friday(s) - Sunday(s): 8:00P – 10:00P
- Monday(s) - Thursday(s): Unavailable
(Q) Do you have a policy regarding the right to refuse service?
(A) I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone at my discretion. This includes, but is not limited to, situations where the client's behavior is inappropriate, the client appears under the influence of drugs or alcohol, or the service requested falls outside the scope of my expertise or comfort level. This policy also applies to communication via email or text. My goal is to ensure a safe and welcoming environment for all clients.
(Q) I just finished work; should I shower before my massage appointment?
(A) Yes, all clients are required to be freshly showered immediately before their appointment. This doesn’t mean showering hours beforehand—please shower right before arriving and ensure all areas of your body are clean and fresh. Unpleasant odors will not be tolerated. If needed, a shower is available for use at my location, but this must be scheduled in advance.
(Q) Wow, you must have a long list of clients waiting for a massage, or perhaps a large client base already?
(A) The truth is, no, I don’t have a long line of new clients or a large client base. This is because I’m highly selective about who I work with for massage. Several factors play into this decision, and my current clientele consists of a small, loyal group of repeat clients.
(Q) Does the masseuse remain clothed or undressed during my massage?
(A) I remain fully clothed during your massage session.
(Q) I’ve got a great physique, and I hear you’re a photographer—am I right?
(A) That's right—alongside my work as a massage therapist, I’m also a photographer. I’ve been behind the lens since 2007, specializing in capturing male fitness models and bodybuilders. Back in the heyday of fitness magazines, I regularly shot features for those publications. If you're looking to step into the world of fitness modeling, reach out—I’d be happy to help you get started!
(Q) I've completed the intake form and emailed the requested images. When can I expect to schedule a massage?
(A) Thanks for filling out the form and sending over the images for review—I appreciate it. This is just one part of the process; the other is getting to know you as a new client. Like I mentioned on my site, I don’t book appointments right away because I prefer to take some time to build a better understanding of who you are. This helps establish trust and ensures we’re both comfortable, especially since I’m inviting someone new into my home for a complimentary massage. Thanks for your understanding.
(Q) I'm married and keep things private (DL). I live a discreet life and value that. Do I still need to fill out the new client intake form? It feels a bit too personal.
(A) Yes, the new client intake form is required for everyone, no matter your marital status or how private you prefer to be. The site explains why it’s necessary, and completing it doesn’t guarantee an appointment—it’s simply the first step in the process.
If you’re not comfortable filling out the form, then I’m probably not the right massage therapist for you.
Contact / Appt Info
Contact / Appt Info
Massage Appointment Information / New Clients:
Same day appointments are not available. All new clients must complete an intake questionnaire before scheduling.
Age Requirement:
Clients must be at least 18 years old. By contacting me, you confirm that you meet this requirement.
Initial Communication:
Before booking, I like to exchange a few DMs or emails. This helps ensure comfort and mutual understanding before we move forward with an appointment.
Serious Inquiries Only:
Please reach out only if you are ready to schedule a session.
New Client Appointment Details:
I offer complimentary sessions for new clients, but same day bookings are not available. This allows time to get acquainted and make sure we are a good fit.
Start by sending a brief email introduction. We’ll exchange a few messages to establish rapport and confirm compatibility. Completing the intake form or having an initial chat does not guarantee an appointment. It’s simply part of creating a comfortable and respectful experience for both of us. All new clients must complete the intake form and provide physique photos for review. Specific instructions are included in the new client intake form.
Ready to start the process? To request the New Client Intake Form, please e-mail me at: (Remember to include a brief introduction about yourself when requesting the form.)
Please note that the new client intake form link is available exclusively by email. It will not be shared through any other method.
(Q): What days and times are you available for massage?
(A): Friday to Sunday: 8:00 PM to 10:00 PM
Monday to Thursday: Not available
Please Read Carefully:
I want to make sure this is clear and understood. My massage service is a complimentary offering, and I’m under no obligation to provide it to anyone. Completing the new client intake form or sending physique photos for review does not guarantee that you’ll receive a massage.
Some men assume that starting the process automatically entitles them to a session, but that’s simply not the case. I reserve the right to decline service for any reason, and as stated on my website, I don’t provide explanations when that happens.
All I ask is that you handle the process with maturity and respect. There’s no need for drama or negativity. Thank you for understanding and for keeping things professional.
Important Notice: If you’re unsure about booking a massage, don’t reach out. I’ve been doing this work for years, and too often new clients come in with a rush of messages, then disappear a day or two later. It’s obvious they’re just chasing a moment of impulse and the cycle repeats. If you are not serious about scheduling and following through, do not waste my time or yours. Thank you for your understanding.
Note: Please check your spam folder, as my response may have been filtered there.
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You must be 18 or older to access this site. Take your time to explore the content—it’s packed with valuable information. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out via the contact email listed at the bottom of the page. Based in Northern California.