Gentleman's Oasis
Essential Information & Disclaimer:
Thank you for visiting my website. I genuinely appreciate your interest in what I have to offer. Before reaching out, I encourage you to take a moment to explore all the content provided here—it’s designed to answer most questions you may have.
One question I’m often asked is why I offer complimentary massage services. For me, it comes down to passion and purpose. With years of experience as a massage therapist (though this is not my primary profession), I’ve developed a deep admiration for the male physique—a true masterpiece of strength and artistry. I take great pride in working with individuals who are physically fit, height-to-weight proportionate, or have a muscular or bodybuilder physique. These forms represent dedication, discipline, and the remarkable power of the "male" body.
Terms and Conditions of Use
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- Age Requirement: This website contains material that is intended exclusively for adult audiences. It is imperative that users be at least eighteen (18) years of age to view or interact with the content provided herein. By entering the site, you affirmatively represent and warrant that you are at least eighteen (18) years old. If you are under the age of eighteen (18), you are explicitly prohibited from using this website and must exit immediately. Any unauthorized access by individuals who do not meet this age requirement constitutes a violation of these terms.
- Content Warning: The content accessible on this website may include explicit and adult-oriented material that may not be suitable for minors. Such content includes, but is not limited to, graphic language, adult themes, sexual content, and imagery that may be deemed offensive or inappropriate by some individuals. Viewer discretion is strongly advised, and it is your responsibility to determine whether you are comfortable with such content before proceeding.
- Responsibility and Liability: By electing to access and engage with this website, you acknowledge and accept that you do so at your own risk. The owner of this website, along with its affiliates, subsidiaries, and partners, shall not be held liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, consequential, or punitive damages arising from your use or inability to use the website, including but not limited to any legal consequences that may result from your failure to comply with these terms and conditions. Furthermore, the masseuse associated with this website is under no obligation to respond to inquiries or to schedule complimentary massages in response to emails, messages, or any other form of communication initiated by users.
By continuing to access this website, you signify your acceptance of these terms and agree to abide by all applicable laws and regulations pertaining to your use of the site.
ABOUT ME
I’m a discreet, 51-year-old divorced bisexual man of mixed Caucasian and Latin heritage. I maintain a well-groomed look with a buzzed haircut, mustache, and goatee. Standing 5’8” and weighing 165 lbs (rockin' a dad bod!), I’m a passionate Sac Kings fan (light the beam! 🟣) and deeply admire the energy, complexity, and strength of the human body.
Since 2000, I’ve been dedicated to delivering top-tier massage therapy, focused on providing exceptional, personalized experiences. Your comfort, satisfaction, and privacy are my top priorities. I offer sessions in a private, professional space within my Northern California home—an environment designed to help you relax and feel at ease. My approach is not about running a typical studio; it’s about connecting with easygoing, like-minded men who value the experience of a complimentary massage. All sessions are strictly social interactions between consenting adults, 18 and older, with complete discretion guaranteed.
I welcome men of all shapes and sizes, but mutual chemistry is key. I have a particular appreciation for athletic and muscular physiques—especially bodybuilders. Working on a muscular body is not just a rewarding challenge for me; it’s an opportunity to apply my expertise in deep tissue techniques to their fullest potential. This preference reflects my background as a photographer specializing in male fitness and bodybuilding for over 15 years. With more than 25 years of massage therapy experience, I bring a unique combination of skills from both fields to create an unmatched experience tailored to your needs.
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Initial Communication and Appointment Policy:
All initial communications with prospective clients shall be conducted exclusively via electronic mail before any appointments are scheduled. This policy ensures a transparent, secure, and professional exchange to establish the foundation for a productive client-practitioner relationship. Prospective clients are required to provide a self-introduction in their initial email, including relevant background information or specific service requirements. This information is essential for aligning expectations and tailoring services to individual needs. A preliminary consultation may be conducted to achieve mutual understanding and facilitate the development of a customized service plan.
All services are provided in a private home setting designed to ensure discretion, comfort, and a relaxed environment for clients.
Gratuity Policy:
Massage services are provided strictly on a complimentary basis, with no fees, charges, or financial obligations required for the services themselves. Gratuities, if offered, are entirely voluntary and neither solicited nor mandatory. Should a client elect to offer a gratuity, it may be rendered in any form of payment, including but not limited to cash, credit or debit cards, or through Square payment platform. NOTE: any gratuities extended are considered unilateral, voluntary expressions of appreciation and, pursuant to California law, shall not be interpreted as payment, consideration, or compensation for any services provided.
Appointment Scheduling and Safety Notice:
Massage appointments are offered during evening hours, beginning no earlier than 8:00 PM, to accommodate clients with daytime obligations and to foster an optimal environment for relaxation. For safety and security, same-day appointments are not available to new clients. This policy allows sufficient time for the initial communication and consultation process, ensuring safety and service quality. By scheduling an appointment or engaging in related communications, clients acknowledge and agree to these terms and conditions. The practitioner reserves the right to amend policies and practices at any time to uphold service standards and prioritize client safety and satisfaction.
Mission
At Gentleman's Oasis in Northern California, my mission as a massage therapist is to help you achieve peak health and wellness through the power of massage therapy. I firmly believe that regular sessions can enhance your overall well-being and improve your quality of life. You'll appreciate the private and professional setup of my dedicated in-home massage room, designed to ensure your comfort and confidentiality.
Massage Info
I offer a range of professional massage services tailored to your needs, including Swedish, deep tissue, sports, and sensual massage. I also provide expert manscaping services. Together, we’ll craft a personalized treatment plan to meet your goals. Massage activates key receptors that signal the central nervous system, relieving tension, promoting relaxation, and releasing endorphins to ease pain and tight muscles. Adding a sensual massage at the end enhances the session, leaving you with a profound sense of relaxation and rejuvenation. Experience the benefits of expert care from a skilled male therapist.
Gentleman's Oasis Massage
Swedish Massage
Deep Tissue Massage
Deep Tissue Massage
Swedish massage stands out as a widely practiced and highly sought-after form of massage therapy, renowned for its proficiency in inducing relaxation, alleviating stress, and mitigating pain. This popular massage technique employs a repertoire of therapeutic maneuvers, including gentle rubbing, kneading, soothing stroking, and rhythmic tapping, all meticulously designed to target and address various muscle groups. This therapeutic modality isn't merely about physical manipulation; it transcends into a holistic experience, harmonizing both the body and mind. The rhythmic and flowing movements of Swedish massage aim to release not only muscle tension but also to promote an overall sense of tranquility and well-being. Through the skillful application of pressure and strategic strokes, this massage technique encourages improved blood circulation, facilitating the body's natural ability to heal. Swedish massage, with its diverse range of techniques, caters to individual needs and preferences. From long, sweeping strokes that create a soothing sensation to focused kneading that targets specific muscle knots, each element contributes to the overall therapeutic effect.
Deep Tissue Massage
Deep Tissue Massage
Deep Tissue Massage
Deep tissue massage aims to address intense muscular tension and discomfort within the muscles and connective tissues. Through the application of deliberate, unhurried strokes and substantial finger pressure, this therapeutic technique is specifically crafted to target and alleviate profound pain and stiffness in the affected areas. By employing deliberate and intense movements, the massage seeks to release tension deeply embedded in the muscle fibers and connective tissues, promoting a sense of relief and improved flexibility. This methodical approach is designed not only to address surface-level tension but also to delve into the deeper layers of musculature, providing a comprehensive solution for those seeking relief from persistent muscular discomfort. The deliberate pace and focused pressure work in tandem to unravel knots, release built-up tension, and enhance overall well-being by promoting increased blood circulation and restoring optimal muscle function.
Sports Massage
Deep Tissue Massage
Sensual Massage
Sports massage caters to the needs of athletes seeking enhanced performance or effective recovery from injuries. My approach blends the therapeutic benefits of deep tissue massage with targeted stretching techniques, ensuring a comprehensive strategy to propel you toward your athletic aspirations. Whether you aim to optimize your performance or bounce back from an injury, my specialized sports massage is tailored to support your journey and promote your overall well-being.
Sensual Massage
New Client Intake Form (Must Complete)
Sensual Massage
A skilled sensual massage uses expert hand techniques to maximize relaxation, tapping into the full potential of the male body's responses. Known for its comprehensive approach to well-being, a sensual massage is designed not only for physical relaxation and stress relief but also to foster a powerful sense of connection. While it shares some methods with traditional massage, a sensual massage takes a more intentional, slower approach to touch, creating a deep, immersive experience aimed at relieving stress / tension.
Manscaping Services
New Client Intake Form (Must Complete)
New Client Intake Form (Must Complete)
As an experienced massage therapist, I offer manscaping services designed for men who value precision and refinement. Manscaping isn’t just grooming—it’s about enhancing your comfort, style, and overall confidence. My services include tailored trimming, shaving, or hair removal for areas like the chest, back, buttocks, and groin.
I prioritize your preferences and ensure every session aligns with your hygiene, aesthetic, and comfort needs. Using a high-quality trimmer sanitized after every use and disposable razors for a smooth, precise finish, I deliver results you can trust. While I steer clear of harsh waxing methods, my approach emphasizes gentle techniques that prioritize your comfort and satisfaction. Please note, this service is available exclusively to returning clients.
New Client Intake Form (Must Complete)
New Client Intake Form (Must Complete)
New Client Intake Form (Must Complete)
Thank you for your interest! New clients, click the image above or the link below to complete the "New Client" intake form. Your responses will help me understand your preferences and deliver a service tailored specifically to you.
Note: This is the first of three intake forms you'll need to complete.
https://forms.gle/2dRb19mDAxWQ5Rzm7
FAQs
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(Q) Is there a specific physique I prefer to massage?
(A) I prefer male physiques that are height and weight proportionate, or very fit, or muscular, or have a bodybuilder's build.
(Q) Are the massages genuinely free of charge?
(A) Massages are entirely complimentary with no hidden agenda. With over two decades of experience as a massage therapist, I genuinely enjoy the art of human touch and the connection to the male physique. This is a passion and a hobby for me, not a means of income.
(Q) Do you offer massages at a studio, or are they performed in a home?
(A) Massages are performed in the comfort of my home, offering a private and discreet experience. I have a dedicated room specifically designed for massage sessions. Before scheduling with new clients, I like to have a brief conversation to ensure we're a good fit and to prioritize safety for both of us.
(Q) Is it necessary for me to fill out the new client intake form available on the website?
(A) Yes, all new clients are required to complete the intake form available on the website. Additionally, you will need to fill out two other questionnaires, which will be emailed to you as part of the onboarding process.
(Q) I'm curious, what do you look like as the person who will be giving me the massage?
(A) I’m a discreet, laid-back, and grounded 51-year-old divorced bisexual man of mixed Caucasian and Latin heritage. Think "guy-next-door" vibe with a clean-cut style—buzzed haircut, mustache, and goatee. I’m 5’8”, 165 lbs, and owning my "dad bod."
(Q) As the massage therapist, would it be possible to obtain photos of you?
(A) I do not send photos of myself under any circumstances. My focus remains entirely on providing massage services, and I kindly ask that all inquiries respect this boundary, as I do not cater to photo collectors or unrelated requests.
(Q) Would it be helpful if I emailed you photos of my current physique?
(A) It would be greatly appreciated if you could email images showcasing your current physique. Including your face in the images is optional. Feel free to send the photos after completing the new client intake form.
(Q) I'm new to M2M and require complete discretion—what are your thoughts on this?
(A) I’m very selective about who I massage and allow into my home—trust is a top priority. Because of this, I keep a small, exclusive client base. Most of my clients are married or on the down-low, and repeat clients. This speaks to the trust they place in me, the comfort they feel, and the enjoyable experience. I also provide complete discretion and privacy. Rest assured, what happens here stays here.
(Q) What should I wear (or not wear) during a massage?
(A) For a massage, I ask clients to undress to their briefs. If preferred, clients may choose to be nude during the session. To ensure comfort and warmth, I always use proper draping throughout the massage.
(Q) What should I do if I become erect during a massage and feel embarrassed?
(A) If you happen to become erect during the massage, there’s absolutely no reason to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. It’s a natural and involuntary response that can occur when your body relaxes deeply and reacts to the soothing power of human touch. Rest assured, this is completely normal and nothing to be concerned about. My focus is on ensuring you have a relaxing, enjoyable, and comfortable experience.
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(Q) Does the masseuse remain clothed or undressed during my massage?
(A) I remain fully clothed during your massage session.
(Q) As a new client, how can I help ensure you feel comfortable and eager to collaborate with me for a massage session?
(A) There's a saying: first impressions last a lifetime. For me, the ideal client is someone who communicates openly, shares their needs or desires clearly, and approaches with respect—not arrogance, rudeness, or unnecessary demands. I value honesty and trust, and I’m drawn to individuals who fit the physique criteria outlined on my website. Above all, I appreciate open-mindedness.
(Q) I really enjoyed the massage and would like to offer a gratuity to show my appreciation for your time and effort. Do you accept gratuities?
(A) Massage services are provided strictly on a complimentary and non-commercial basis, with no fees, charges, or financial obligations required for the performance of such services. Gratuities, if offered, are entirely voluntary, unsolicited, and not obligatory in any manner. Should a client elect to provide a gratuity, it may be rendered in various legally acceptable forms, including but not limited to cash, credit or debit cards, or through the Square payment service. Notice: Any gratuities extended are deemed unilateral, voluntary expressions of appreciation and, pursuant to applicable California statutes and regulations, shall not be construed, interpreted, or implied as payment, consideration, or compensation for any services rendered.
(Q) I've reviewed the new client intake form but am not comfortable providing certain information. Can I still proceed with scheduling a massage?
(A) I appreciate you taking the time to complete the new client intake form. Providing all the required information is necessary for me to proceed with scheduling your massage. Please note that incomplete forms will result in an automatic decline of services. The requested information is essential for booking, maintaining contact, and ensuring safety. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.
(Q) What are your available days and times for a massage?
(A) Availability Schedule:
- Thursday to Sunday: 8:00 PM – 11:00 PM
- Monday: 9:00 AM – 1:00 PM (very limited)
- Tuesday and Wednesday: Unavailable
(Q) Do you have a policy regarding the right to refuse service?
(A) I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone at my discretion. This includes, but is not limited to, situations where the client's behavior is inappropriate, the client appears under the influence of drugs or alcohol, or the service requested falls outside the scope of my expertise or comfort level. This policy also applies to communication via email or text. My goal is to ensure a safe and welcoming environment for all clients.
(Q) I just finished work; should I shower before my massage appointment?
(A) Yes, all clients are required to be freshly showered immediately before their appointment. This doesn’t mean showering hours beforehand—please shower right before arriving and ensure all areas of your body are clean and fresh. Unpleasant odors will not be tolerated. If needed, a shower is available for use at my location, but this must be scheduled in advance.
Contact Me!
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Contact Me!
I invite you to explore my website, where you'll find detailed information to address most of your questions.
Massage Appointment Availability:
- New Clients: Please note that same-day bookings are not available for new clients. Additionally, a new client intake questionnaire must be completed prior to scheduling.
Important Notes:
- Drug-Free Zone: I uphold a strict drug-free policy.
- Age Requirement / Appointment Information: You must be at least 18 years old to reach out to me. By contacting me, you confirm that you meet this age requirement. Before scheduling a massage session, I kindly ask that we take the time to get to know each other for the safety and comfort of both parties. Let’s exchange a few emails first before confirming an appointment. Thank you for your understanding!
- Serious Inquiries Only!
New Client Appointment Guidelines:
I provide complimentary massage services, but same-day appointments are not available for new clients. This policy exists for several reasons, with the primary one being that I prefer to establish a connection beforehand.
Before booking a massage, I require some initial communication—either through texting or exchanging emails. This allows us to get acquainted and ensures mutual compatibility. Please note, completing the new client intake forms or engaging in conversation does not guarantee an appointment. It simply helps me determine if we’re a good fit to proceed.
NOTE: If you still have questions, feel free to email me. Please note, this email address is only for additional inquiries and not for scheduling appointments. New clients should complete the intake form provided above.
Again, kindly refrain from using this email to book an appointment.
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You must be 18 or older to access this site. Take your time to explore the content—it’s packed with valuable information. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out via the contact email listed at the bottom of the page. Based in Northern California.