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Important Information:
This website is intended for adults age 18 and older and may include adult themes or imagery. By continuing, you confirm that you are at least 18 years old. Please review the services, policies, Frequently Asked Questions, and New Client Process before contacting me. Most common questions are answered below. All sessions are offered at my discretion. Sending a message, completing the intake form, or submitting photos does not guarantee an appointment. Images and videos on this site are for illustration and promotion. The people shown are not clients or staff, and the pictured settings may not represent the actual massage room.
Before You Request an Appointment:
I primarily work with adult men who are fit, athletic, muscular, built like bodybuilders, or proportionate in height and weight. Because my massage table has a fixed working capacity, I may be unable to accommodate every body size safely. If you are unsure whether the equipment can safely accommodate you, ask before requesting an appointment. All new clients must complete the New Client Intake Form and provide current physique photos as described in the form. I do not schedule an appointment on the same day a new client contacts me. I also take time to communicate before offering an appointment so that both of us can determine whether the arrangement feels comfortable and appropriate. Please begin the process only when you are ready to communicate honestly and follow through. If your plans or interest change, let me know.
At Body Mechanic Massage, my purpose is straightforward: to give men a private, comfortable place to slow down, release tension, recover, and reconnect with their bodies. Every session is tailored to your individual needs, helping you feel restored, grounded, and more at ease in your own skin.
My private home studio welcomes men who value discretion, honest communication, clear boundaries, mutual respect, and genuine connection. For some men, receiving massage from another man already feels natural. For others, it may be their first experience with male touch or something they have been curious about but never had the opportunity to explore. No previous experience is necessary, and there is nothing you are expected to prove or explain. You set the pace while your comfort, privacy, consent, and personal boundaries remain at the center of the experience.
This opportunity is intended for men with sincere interest who are willing to complete the intake process before scheduling an appointment. The process allows me to understand your comfort level, boundaries, goals, and expectations while helping ensure the experience is right for both of us. Every session takes place without pressure, judgment, or assumptions in a calm and respectful setting where trust can develop naturally.
Whether you are seeking physical relief, deeper relaxation, a comfortable introduction to male to male massage, or simply meaningful time away from the demands of everyday life, Body Mechanic Massage offers a discreet experience designed around you. Come as you are, communicate openly, and give yourself permission to discover how natural, grounding, and rewarding another man’s touch can feel.
Relax. Rejuvenate. Recharge. Discover a Distinctive Massage Experience Designed for the Modern Man.
I’m a 53 year old divorced, bisexual man of Caucasian and Hispanic heritage. I’m discreet, masculine, and easygoing. I stand 5 feet 8 inches tall, weigh 175 pounds, and maintain a clean, well groomed appearance with a buzzed haircut, mustache, and goatee.
I’m also a Sac Kings fan (light the beam!). Some of my hobbies and interests include cars, music, grilling, reading, photography, massage, watching sports, attending car shows, taking road trips, spending time outdoors, and tackling projects around the house, to name a few.
During the day, I work professionally as a project manager. Outside of work, I devote my time to two longtime passions: photography and massage. I photograph male fitness models and bodybuilders, and I have practiced massage since 2000.
What began as a personal interest has grown into a meaningful way for me to help other men relax, recharge, and reconnect with their bodies. My massage experience is designed for adult male clients who value privacy, comfort, discretion, and respectful masculine connection.
Sessions take place in a private, comfortable room inside my Northern California home. I provide a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere where clear communication, personal boundaries, and mutual respect always come first.
Thank you for considering my services. Before requesting an appointment, review the New Client Process and Frequently Asked Questions so you understand how scheduling works. I offer Swedish massage, deep tissue massage, sports massage, sensual and sensory massage, infrared cupping, and manscaping for established returning clients. Each session is tailored to your preferences, comfort, and goals. Clear, timely communication matters. I respond as promptly as I can and ask new clients to remain consistent while completing the intake process. Massage may help reduce muscle tension, support relaxation, improve comfort, and increase body awareness. Results vary, and massage is not a substitute for medical care.
My focus is collaborating with men who have height and weight proportionate physiques, solid muscular builds, or developed bodybuilder physiques. I understand the discipline, consistency, and physical demands required to build and maintain a strong physique. Intense training can leave muscles feeling tight, sore, fatigued, and restricted, while massage may support recovery by easing built up tension, encouraging deeper relaxation, improving overall comfort, and helping the body move more freely. Whether you are preparing for a competition, recovering from a demanding workout, maintaining your physique, or simply giving your body the attention it deserves, every session can be customized with the appropriate pressure, techniques, and areas of focus to match your individual needs, comfort level, and training goals.
All initial communication must take place by email or text. In your first message, briefly introduce yourself and identify the service that interests you. I may ask a few questions before providing the New Client Intake Form.
Same day appointments are not available for new clients, and appointments for the following day are rarely available. I take time to establish mutual comfort, trust, and clear expectations before welcoming anyone into my home. Please respect this process and plan accordingly.
Available Appointment Hours
Friday through Tuesday
7:00 PM to 10:00 PM
Gratuity Policy
All massage sessions are complimentary. There are no service fees or required payments. Gratuities are entirely optional, never expected, and have no bearing on whether a session is offered.
If you choose to leave a gratuity, I accept cash or major credit and debit cards through Square.
Consent, Boundaries and Comfort
Clear communication, mutual respect, and active consent are required throughout every session. You may request an adjustment to the pressure, technique, draping, or area of focus at any time. You may also pause or end the session at any point.
I reserve the same right and will pause or end a session if established boundaries are ignored or disrespected.
Before the session begins, we will discuss your preferences, areas to avoid, and any questions or concerns you may have. Nothing is assumed. Consent is ongoing and may be changed or withdrawn at any time.
My website contains detailed information, so please take the time to read it carefully before reaching out. If you are looking for a same day or next day appointment, my services may not be the right fit for you.
I take a thoughtful approach with every new client. Before scheduling a session, I want to build trust, understand your needs, and make sure we are both comfortable moving forward. Since I work from my home, I also prefer to get to know each new client before inviting him into my private space.
For this reason, all new clients are required to complete the New Client Intake Form before an appointment can be considered. This form is an important part of my screening and scheduling process. You will find it at the bottom of the website, along with the FAQ section and answers to many common questions.
Massage sessions are generally scheduled after 7:00 p.m. Additional scheduling details are available in the FAQ section. If this process requires more time or effort than you prefer, I completely understand and encourage you to find another massage therapist who may be a better match for your needs.
Swedish massage uses smooth, flowing strokes, kneading, and gentle rhythmic movements to promote relaxation and ease everyday muscle tension. Pressure can be adjusted throughout the session based on your comfort and preferences.
Deep tissue massage uses slower, focused pressure to address areas of persistent tightness and muscular discomfort. I adjust the intensity to your comfort and communicate with you throughout the session. Deep tissue work should feel purposeful, not punishing.
Sports massage is designed for active men who want targeted work before or after training. A session may combine focused massage and assisted stretching to address tight areas and support comfortable movement.
Infrared cupping combines gentle suction with red or infrared light. Some clients find the warmth and suction relaxing. Temporary circular marks can occur and may remain for several days.
Tell me beforehand if you bruise easily, have a skin condition, or take medication that affects bleeding. If you have questions about whether cupping is appropriate for you, consult a qualified medical professional.
Common reasons clients request this service include muscular tightness, temporary soreness, relaxation, and body awareness.
Slow, attentive touch can create deep relaxation and greater body awareness. The pace, pressure, and focus are guided by clear communication, mutual consent, and your stated boundaries.
The experience is private, unhurried, and personalized. You are encouraged to communicate what feels comfortable throughout the session, and you may change or withdraw consent at any time.
Personal grooming services are available only to established returning clients. Options may include trimming, shaving, and hair removal for selected areas, based on your preferences and comfort.
Equipment is cleaned and sanitized between clients, and disposable razors are used when appropriate. Before beginning, we will discuss the areas to be groomed, the method to be used, skin sensitivity, and the result you want.
Every service is handled with privacy, patience, clear boundaries, and respect.
Q: Do you specialize in working with a particular body type?
A: I primarily work with adult men whose height and weight are generally proportionate, including men who are physically fit, athletic, muscular, or have a bodybuilding physique.
My massage equipment has a fixed working capacity, so I may not be able to accommodate every body size safely. If you have any concerns, please ask before beginning the intake process.
Q: Are the massage sessions genuinely complimentary?
A: Yes. Every massage session is provided at no charge. There are no fees, required payments, or hidden expectations.
I have practiced massage for more than two decades and genuinely enjoy the art of human touch, masculine connection, and working with the male physique. Massage is a personal passion, not a source of income.
Q: Are the photos on your website of your massage room or actual clients?
A: No. The images and male models throughout my website are for illustration purposes only. They do not show my actual massage room or clients. Massages take place in a dedicated room within my home.
Q: Who is this massage experience designed for?
A: My massage therapy is designed for the open minded modern man. It is especially suited to men who are new to or curious about male to male touch and massage, as well as men interested in privately exploring their bi curious side with another man. Every experience moves at your pace and is guided by consent, discretion, honest communication, mutual comfort, and clear boundaries.
Q: Do I need previous M2M experience?
A: No. Sometimes the men I work with are completely new to the experience or simply curious about masculine touch. You will never be pressured or judged. The purpose is to provide a private and comfortable setting where you can relax, explore, and decide what feels right for you.
Q: Do sessions take place in a studio or private home?
A: Sessions take place in a private massage room inside my home. The setting is clean, quiet, comfortable, and discreet.
Because I am inviting someone into my personal space, I take time to communicate, establish trust, and determine whether the arrangement feels appropriate for both of us.
Q: Is the New Client Intake Form required?
A: Yes. Every new client must complete the New Client Intake Form and answer all required questions honestly and thoroughly.
Clear, current physique photos are also required. Complete instructions are included with the form.
Submitting the form and photos is the first step in the process, but it does not guarantee an appointment.
Q: Can you tell me about yourself and what you look like?
A: I am 53, divorced, bisexual, discreet, laid back, and grounded. I am of mixed Caucasian and Latin heritage.
I am 5 feet 8 inches tall and weigh approximately 175 pounds. I have a clean, masculine, guy next door appearance with a buzzed haircut, mustache, and goatee.
Q: Will you send me personal photos of yourself?
A: No. I do not share personal photos of myself under any circumstances.
My photos were misused in the past after I declined someone’s request. As a result, this is a firm personal boundary. Please respect it and keep all inquiries focused on the massage services offered.
Q: Do I need to submit current physique photos?
A: Yes. Current physique photos are required after you complete the New Client Intake Form.
The photos should clearly show your physique from your neck to your feet. Including your face is optional. Complete instructions for taking and submitting the photos are included with the form.
Q: I require complete discretion. Will my privacy be respected?
A: Yes. Privacy, trust, and discretion are central to every interaction.
I personally review all intake information and submitted photos and treat them as confidential. I also maintain a small, trusted client base.
Your personal life is your business, and you will always be treated with discretion and respect.
Q: Why do you request my cell phone number?
A: Since all sessions take place in my home, establishing trust and maintaining clear communication are important before I invite someone into my personal space.
I prefer communicating by phone or text and appreciate consistent communication throughout the new client process. A brief exchange over one or two days is not always enough to determine whether we are a good fit. Honesty, reliability, and follow through help build mutual trust and comfort.
Providing your cell phone number is preferred, but it is not required. It would, however, be greatly appreciated. If you choose to begin the process, I simply ask that you remain engaged and responsive.
Q: What should I wear during the massage?
A: Clients are asked to undress to their briefs. You may also choose to be nude if that feels more comfortable.
Proper draping is used throughout the session to maintain warmth, privacy, comfort, and clear boundaries. Your preferences will be discussed before the massage begins.
Q: What if I become erect during the massage?
A: There is no reason to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. An erection can be a natural and involuntary response when the body becomes deeply relaxed or responds to physical touch.
I remain professional and focused on providing a comfortable, respectful, and enjoyable massage experience.
Q: Do you offer same day appointments to new clients or visitors?
A: No. I do not schedule same day appointments for new clients, including those visiting Sacramento or Northern California for the day.
Every new client must complete the intake process and allow time for review and communication. If you are planning a visit, please begin the process well before your trip.
If you need an immediate or last minute appointment, I am probably not the right massage provider for you.
Q: Will body hair cause a problem during the massage?
A: No. Body hair is not a problem.
Massage lotion can occasionally pull on thicker body hair and cause temporary discomfort. If this happens, let me know immediately so I can adjust my pressure or technique.
I use Biotone Massage Lotion, a high quality, hypoallergenic product. A fragrance free option is also available. I do not use massage oils because they can damage the massage table and may irritate the skin.
Please disclose any allergies, sensitivities, or product concerns before your session.
Q: I submitted my information but have not received a response. What should I do?
A: Please check your spam or junk folder first, as my response may have been filtered there.
I personally review every inquiry and respond when appropriate. Completing the intake form and submitting the requested photos does not guarantee a response or an appointment.
Q: I visit Sacramento regularly. How can I get started?
A: You can begin now by completing the New Client Intake Form. This gives us time to communicate, become acquainted, and determine whether working together would be a good fit.
If the process goes well, we can discuss an appointment for a future visit based on my availability. Completing the form does not guarantee an appointment.
Q: How can I make a strong first impression as a new client?
A: Be honest, respectful, responsive, and clear about your needs, interests, and boundaries. Complete the intake form carefully and communicate openly throughout the process.
I value mature, open minded men who can communicate without arrogance, rudeness, or unnecessary demands. Respecting my process and meeting the physique criteria described on my website are also important.
Q: May I offer a gratuity after my massage?
A: All massage sessions are complimentary. No payment or gratuity is required or expected.
If you choose to offer a gratuity afterward, it is entirely voluntary and may be given in cash, by credit card, by debit card, or through Square. A gratuity is simply an optional gesture of appreciation and is never considered payment for massage services.
Q: What if I am uncomfortable providing some of the requested information?
A: Every required section of the New Client Intake Form must be completed before I can consider your request. Incomplete forms are automatically declined.
The information helps me evaluate each request, establish communication, and protect the safety and comfort of everyone involved.
If you prefer not to provide the requested information, I respect your decision. However, I will not be able to move forward with an appointment.
Q: What days and times are you available?
A: My current availability is Friday through Tuesday from 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM.
Q: Do you reserve the right to refuse service?
A: Yes. I reserve the right to decline or discontinue service at my discretion.
Reasons may include inappropriate or disrespectful behavior, arriving under the influence of drugs or alcohol, or requesting services outside my experience or personal comfort level.
This policy applies to communication by email and text as well as conduct during an appointment. My priority is maintaining a safe, respectful, and comfortable environment.
Q: Do I need to shower immediately before my massage?
A: Yes. Every client must arrive freshly showered immediately before the appointment. Showering several hours earlier does not meet this requirement.
Please make sure your entire body is clean and fresh before arriving. If this hygiene standard is not met, the massage will not proceed.
A shower is available at my location when arranged in advance.
Q: Do you have a large client base or a long waiting list?
A: No. I intentionally maintain a small client base because I am selective about the men I work with.
My clientele consists of a limited group of respectful, reliable, repeat clients. Quality, trust, and mutual comfort matter more to me than maintaining a large number of clients.
Q: Do you remain clothed during the massage?
A: Yes. I remain lightly clothed throughout the entire massage session.
Q: Is it true that you are also a photographer?
A: Yes. I have worked as a photographer since 2007, specializing in male fitness models and bodybuilders.
During the height of fitness magazines, I regularly photographed editorial features for those publications. If you are serious about fitness modeling or building a strong portfolio, I would be glad to discuss how I may be able to help you get started.
Q: I completed the intake form and submitted my photos. When can I schedule a massage?
A: Completing the form and submitting your photos are only the first steps. I carefully review everything and take time to communicate with each potential new client before considering an appointment.
Because these complimentary sessions take place inside my home, trust, honesty, and mutual comfort are essential.
If the process goes well and I believe we are a good fit, we can discuss my availability. Submitting the requested information does not guarantee an appointment.
Q: I am married and live a private life. Do I still need to complete the intake form?
A: Yes. The same screening process applies to every new client, regardless of marital status or the need for privacy.
Your desire for discretion does not change my safety and screening requirements. Every required section of the form must be completed.
If you are uncomfortable providing the requested information, I respect your decision. However, I will not be able to consider you for an appointment.
Q: I am curious about male to male massage but feel nervous. Is that normal?
A: Absolutely. Curiosity and nervousness are completely natural, especially if this is your first massage with another man or your first time exploring male to male chemistry.
A private massage offers a relaxed and comfortable setting to experience masculine touch, build confidence, and explore at your own pace.
Clear communication, mutual respect, consent, and personal boundaries guide every experience. There is never any pressure to move beyond your comfort level.
Q: How long are my New Client Intake Form and submitted images valid?
A: Your completed New Client Intake Form and submitted images are valid for sixty days from the date they are received. If your submission is approved, you must book and receive your first massage within that sixty day period.
Once you receive your massage within those sixty days, you will not need to complete another intake form or submit new images. This requirement applies only to new clients who do not book and receive their first massage within the sixty day period. After sixty days, you must complete a new intake form and submit current images for review.
Step I: Email GentlemansOasis916@gmail.com with a brief introduction and the service that interests you. Use the subject line “New Client Intake Form Request.”
Step II: I will send the New Client Intake Form by email. The form link is not shared through direct messages or other methods.
Step III: Complete every required question thoughtfully and thoroughly.
Step IV: Follow the instructions on the form and submit clear, current physique photos showing your body from your neck to your feet. Including your face is optional.
Your photos must honestly represent your present physique. Do not submit fake, heavily altered, or outdated images. Current means the photos must be taken on the day you complete the intake form or within the previous seven days.
Step V: Continue communicating by email or text. If we are a good fit and an appointment is available, I will contact you about scheduling.
Step VI: Follow every instruction carefully and complete each step exactly as stated. Failure to do so will likely result in your email receiving no response.
Note: If you do not receive a response to your request for the New Client Intake Form, please check your spam or junk folder, as my reply may have been filtered there. If you still cannot locate a response, I may have determined, based on your initial email, that we are not the right fit to move forward with the new client intake process.
Thank you in advance for your understanding.
I personally review every intake form and submitted photo. All information is handled discreetly and treated as confidential. If the process ever feels too personal or you become uncomfortable, you are free to stop at any time.
As explained throughout my website, my services are intended for the modern man who is comfortable with, curious about, or new to male to male touch. This may include someone experiencing massage from another man for the first time or exploring a respectful connection with another man.
Please begin this process only if you sincerely intend to complete the intake requirements and schedule a session. False information, altered or outdated photos, inconsistent communication, disrespectful behavior, or repeatedly disappearing may result in your inquiry no longer being considered.
If you contact me through Reddit, please use an established and active profile. Blank or newly created profiles are generally not considered. I may request additional information when necessary to confirm that an inquiry is genuine.
I reserve the right to decline an inquiry or end a session if I have concerns involving safety, comfort, honesty, personal boundaries, or the type of service being requested. These decisions are made at my discretion, and a detailed explanation may not always be provided.
Thank you for respecting my time, boundaries, and process. Relax. Rejuvenate. Recharge. Discover a Distinctive Massage Experience Designed for the Modern Man.
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